Cricket Posted November 12, 2008 Share Posted November 12, 2008 Hi Folks, Sorry I haven't been around much (again). We put everything in storage, including my houses, and moved in to care for Greg's dad. He'd just been diagnosed in August with stage 4 lung cancer, and passed away Sat morning. This one moved FAST... He'd had X-rays in August last year, and although there was some scar tissue visible (probably from previous bouts of pnumonia & bronchitis) further tests then showed no cancer. Right now,we have no immediate plans to move again, but eventually we will be moving closer to Greg's job. (It's a 2-hour commute one way from here) I've got the kids registered in school here, and I really don't want to switch them again. As far s "just to have" a plan of some sort, we'll probably stay here at Dad's house through the holidays. I'd love to go pull out at least one house (my Rutherford) and some of my minis, but there's so much STUFF here already (Pops was a packrat!) sooooo, it'll all just have to wait. I miss you all, and I will be back eventually. I just haven't had much to contribute, most of all time, and without my minis or much else here.. well, let's just say you guys make me want to jump right into to my projects, and I can't. I'll pop in from time to time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eglefther Posted November 12, 2008 Share Posted November 12, 2008 Sorry to hear about your loss. I'll keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shy Spirit Posted November 12, 2008 Share Posted November 12, 2008 I'm so sorry to hear about Greg's dad - on the one hand, it was a blessing he went quickly, and on the other hand, it must have been a shock to you all. You've had a lot of changes in your life recently - I imagine it will take you quite a while to take it all in, and feel "balanced" again. I'm sending you {{{Hugs}}} and healing energy. You and your family need time to be together, to grieve, and to accept what has happened. Some extra {{{{{Hugs}}}}} for Greg. Thank goodness you were all there to look after his dad, and to spend that precious time with each other. Maybe working on a dh isn't possible right now, but if you have some little kits - perhaps to make a plant or something small - dig it out and have a go. Mini therapy is always a good thing. We'll be thinking of you Jeni, and hoping to "see" you here soon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justmesue Posted November 12, 2008 Share Posted November 12, 2008 My sympathies to you and yours. HUGS! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
havanaholly Posted November 12, 2008 Share Posted November 12, 2008 Sorry such a sad errand has kept you away, you've been missed, for sure! Rosalind is right on, find some mini projects, maybe making a set of dishes from paper, or stitching a little rug for your Rutherford, will keep you in the loop. definitely come play with us here when you can. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Esther Posted November 12, 2008 Share Posted November 12, 2008 Sorry about your FIL and the upheaval in your lives. It doesn't matter if you're not working on your dh, you can still enjoy the forum. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hallowell Posted November 12, 2008 Share Posted November 12, 2008 Sorry for your loss. Hugs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IAK Posted November 12, 2008 Share Posted November 12, 2008 I'm so sorry for your loss....at least he is at peace now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gayle Posted November 12, 2008 Share Posted November 12, 2008 Sorry for your loss, I'll keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uppitycats Posted November 12, 2008 Share Posted November 12, 2008 I'm so sorry for your family's loss! Lung cancer is one evil disease. I lost my mother to it 13 years ago...almost as quickly as your loss. Take care, and hugs from here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ilovecats Posted November 12, 2008 Share Posted November 12, 2008 Hi Jeni, i'm sorry to hear about your FIL, but glad he doesn't have to suffer anymore. I wonder about you from time to time, how you're doing Hope all is well. marg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chesterfieldzoo Posted November 12, 2008 Share Posted November 12, 2008 I am so sorry for you. Did you sell your house to move? So your frozen pipes problems will be someone elses problems now? (I hope so) I think Holly had a good idea to just work on something small. Make a rug, or crochet a blanket. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kalygirl Posted November 12, 2008 Share Posted November 12, 2008 I'm so sorry for your loss, and I'll keep you and your family in my thoughts. And as far as not having anything to contribute.....it's not a bad thing to come in and "lurk" sometimes...sometimes just reading what everyone is up to helps bring my spirits up, even if I don't have anything to say Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Minis On The Edge Posted November 12, 2008 Share Posted November 12, 2008 I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your Father In Law! Sending Big hugs of Sympathy to you and your family right now!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wolfie Posted November 12, 2008 Share Posted November 12, 2008 Jeni, so sorry for your loss. Just know that he is at peace now and not in any more pain. As for you, moving is never an easy or pleasant chore, but necessary. Good luck on your move. Peace to you for your FIL. Never regret the time you spent caring for him. I'm sure he appreciated it and passed on peacefully because of it. Hugs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
badlilkit10 Posted November 12, 2008 Share Posted November 12, 2008 sorry for your loss sending hugs and warm wishes your way to you and your family Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cricket Posted November 12, 2008 Author Share Posted November 12, 2008 Thank you Everyone for your replies. I've passed them on to Greg, and we both really appreciate it. He is at peace now, and for that we are very greatful. His last few days were very hard on him. (And the rest of us) I certainly don't regret the time I spent caring for him, even while he was at his most cantankerous and tough to deal with. Quite the pistol, he was! He let us know, very ften, how much he enjoyed having his family with him, and how much he appreciated our help. As for the house, long story there, but the frozen pipes are definitely someone else's headche. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anna Posted November 12, 2008 Share Posted November 12, 2008 Jeni, I am sorry for your loss and am thinking of you! It is never easy to let go, but you were there for him when he needed it the most! Sending lots of hugs to you and the whole family! HUGS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THmini2 Posted November 12, 2008 Share Posted November 12, 2008 I am so sorry for your loss. But as you said he was apprieciative of you all being there for him. It is never easy but he is at peace now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TinyJudi Posted November 13, 2008 Share Posted November 13, 2008 I am sorry to hear of your family's loss. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KathieB Posted November 13, 2008 Share Posted November 13, 2008 Jeni, my condolences to you and Greg and the children. What upheaval in your life with such short notice! I wish you peace in the coming weeks. {{{ hugs }}} Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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